Grandmother Carrie

My grandmother Carrie was born on this date 125 years ago. She was the fourth child of Charles and Ida, proud carriers of the Von Steuben family name, and collateral descendants of the Revolutionary War hero, Baron Von Steuben, Inspector General of the Continental Army at Valley Forge.

Carrie Von Steuben on her wedding day June 30, 1923.

But her entire life was completely influenced by the death of her father four months before she was born. On September 6, 1899, The Easton Daily Express reported the tragic news:

STEUBEN’S INJURIES FATAL
Charles Steuben, 28 years old, of Nazareth, the brakeman on the Easton & Northern railroad who had his skull fractured last week by being struck by an overhead bridge at Nazareth, died at that place at 4 o’clock this morning. He was standing on top of a freight car at the time the accident occurred. The deceased man leaves a widow and three children.

Charles Von Steuben’s photo added to an image of the memorial flowers from the Railroad’s Freight Crew.

That’s a three-sentence summation of a three-second accident that has eternal ramifications for those who survived, as well as many who were yet to be born.

One month later, the Northampton County Orphans Court appointed a guardian “for the purposes of executing a release in behalf of the aforesaid minors to the Bangor & Portland Railway Company, releasing and discharging any and all damages or actions for damages for an injury received by the said Charles A. Von Steuben, while in the Employ of the Bangor & Portland Railway Company and resulting in his death, in consideration of Twenty Five dollars a month for a period of ten years.”

But despite the Court’s assistance, grandma Carrie was born into hardship January 24, 1900, which unfortunately grew quickly worse. Just months later, her two brothers, Floyd, 7, and Barron, 5, died 31 days apart, likely from a common childhood disease, leaving just one sibling, sister Elnora. I can’t help wonder if such stresses contributed to widow Ida’s untimely death at the young age of 34, leaving Carrie orphaned at age 9.

Carrie’s older siblings: Floyd, Barron, and Elnora Von Steuben

The poor sisters were placed in foster homes, not so much to assimilate into families, as to work for them. Carrie went to work for the Fritz family in the Victorian-era farmhouse in rural Moore Township, near the bottom of the hill leading up to Chapman Quarries.

And there’s where Charles’ fateful day continues a legacy that affects me personally. For if Carrie hadn’t been orphaned, she likely wouldn’t have moved out of the family home, or enrolled in the Chapman Quarries schoolhouse, or met her husband Joe Herd, or raised her own herd of Herds. And the rest, as they say, wouldn’t have been history.

2024 Reading Roundup

Books have brought me into worlds I wouldn’t otherwise know

This past year’s reading has brought me into worlds and cultures I wouldn’t otherwise know. I have visited Nazi Germany (three times), ancient Palestine, Soviet Russia, Revolutionary Russia, Cold War Europe, South Africa, Victorian Australia, Spanish colonization, Antarctica, even those spheres of oppression, depression, gene editing, scientific research, cosmology, and quantum physics.

These books have taught me more about myself and those around me. I have reveled in the wonders of my own body, and have gained insights into wellness, happiness, and better working and personal relationships.

These books have ignited my imagination through creative storytelling. I’ve entered several classic tales for the first time, and have revisited some inspiring old favorites.

These books have expanded my knowledge in a great many subjects: natural, geologic, and cultural history; economics, public policy, activism; exploitation, greed, commerce, philanthropy; psychology, volunteer organizing, and leadership in philosophical differences and changing cultures. And so much more!

My favorites and recommendations are noted with an asterisk. But here are my special mentions:

  • Most satisfying ending: Angel of Vengeance
  • Most surprising over what I thought I knew about it: Tarzan of the Apes
  • Most over my head: The Physics of Immortality
  • Most annoying: HHhH (author reports true things, then confesses he made them up)
  • Most wide-ranging scope: Saving the Redwoods
  • Most spiritually revealing: New Morning Mercies
  • Most enjoyable biography/memoir: Sunday Nights at Seven: The Jack Benny Story
  1. * Destined to Witness: Growing Up Black in Nazi Germany, Hans J. Massaquoi
  2. The Handbook for Health: 5 Essential Pillars for Optimized Wellness, Dr. Christopher Turnpaugh with Dr. Cynthia West
  3. The 6 Types of Working Genius: a Better Way to Understand Your Frustrations and Your Team, Patrick Lencioni
  4. * The Body: a Guide for Occupants, Bill Bryson
  5. * Only One Year: How Joseph Stalin’s Daughter Broke Through the Iron Curtain, Svetlana Alliluyeva
  6. The Millionaires, Brad Meltzner
  7. Name All the Animals: a Memoir, Alison Smith
  8. * The Blue Zones of Happiness: Lessons from the World’s Happiest People, Dan Buettner
  9. * The Code Breaker: Jennifer Doudna, Gene Editing and the Future of the Human Race, Walter Isaacson
  10. * From the Earth to the Moon, Jules Vern
  11. A Sand County Almanac and Sketches Here and There, Aldo Leopold
  12. * Inkheart, Cornelia Funke
  13. * Inkspell, Cornelia Funke
  14. * Inkdeath, Cornelia Funke
  15. * The Noticer, Andy Andrews
  16. HHhH “Himmler’s brain is called Heydrich”, Laurent Binet
  17. Bethlehem, Karen Kelly
  18. Homecoming, Kate Morton
  19. The Trail, Robert Whitlow
  20. Cry, the Beloved Country, Alan Paton
  21. * The Last Days of Night, Graham Moore
  22. * Still Life With Crows, Douglas Preston and Lincoln Child
  23. * Shackleton’s Stowaway, Victoria McKernan
  24. The Magician’s Nephew, C.S. Lewis
  25. White Fire, Douglas Preston and Lincoln Child
  26. Three Sisters, Heather Morris
  27. * Tuck Everlasting, Natalie Babbitt
  28. Murder in the Lincoln Bedroom, Elliot Roosevelt
  29. * The Scorpion’s Tail, Douglas Preston and Lincoln Child
  30. The Leader’s Greatest Return: Attracting, Developing and Multiplying Leaders, John C. Maxwell
  31. Mayday, Nelson DeMille and Thomas Block
  32. * The Oath, Frank Peretti
  33. Community Recreation and Parks Handbook, Sue Landes
  34. Financing Municipal Recreation and Parks, Sue Landes
  35. Absolute Friends, John le Carré
  36. * The Day the World Came to Town: 9/11 in Gander, Newfoundland, Jim DeFede
  37. Humorous Stories and Sketches, Mark Twain
  38. Murders on Alcatraz, George DeVincenzi
  39. * Palisades Park, Alan Brennert
  40. Skin: Revenge is Beautiful, Ted Dekker
  41. * A Gentleman in Moscow, Amor Towles
  42. * Tarzan of the Apes, Edgar Rice Burroughes
  43. Just Tell Them I Love Them: a Hospice Chaplain’s Invitation to Live Well, Helen Burke
  44. * Take This Cup, Bodie and Brock Thoene
  45. The First 90 Days: Proven Strategies for Getting Up to Speed Faster and Smarter, Michael D. Watkins
  46. * Saving the Redwoods: The Movement to Rescue a Wonder of the Natural World, Joseph H. Engbeck, Jr.
  47. * Eternal, Lisa Scottoline
  48. * Sunday Nights at Seven: The Jack Benny Story by Jack Benny and his daughter Joan
  49. The Best Christmas Pageant Ever, Barbara Roobinson
  50. * Healing Stones, Nancy Rue and Stephen Arterburn
  51. * Angel of Vengeance, Douglas Preston and Lincoln Child
  52. The Physics of Immortality: Modern Cosmology, God and the Resurrection of the Dead, Frank J. Tippler
  53. * New Morning Mercies: A Daily Gospel Devotional, Paul David Tripp